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Schoolhouse by the garden… 6 months on…

003 M has now attended 3 months of the half-day programme and 3+ months of the full-day programme at Schoolhouse by the garden. With the exception that she’s falling sick more often, we are happy with the school so far. The class size has grown from 8 in Dec 2008 to 12 now. With two teachers, one local English teacher and one PRC Chinese teacher, class management still seems manageable.

Just a couple weeks back, we met up with the teachers during the annual Meet-the-Parents session and were presented with an evaluation of M’s developmental progress. One observation shared by the teachers is M’s positive learning attitude. She’s always keen on hands-on activities and very attentive during story telling sessions. However, both noted that she’s always distracted during flashcard sessions. Oops! I wonder if I caused that with all the Glenn Doman flashcards when she was younger.

According to the teachers, M is also generally cooperative and very aware of the good behaviour that is expected of her. For example, she’ll say “Teacher M, I never run”. With regards to interaction with her peers, she’s willing to share toys but does not like anyone to touch her bedding items. As for her likes and dislikes, she loves getting her hands dirty during arts and craft and cookery classes but dislikes rough play and getting water in her eyes during water play.

We’re happy with her development so far and we continue to like the school environment and community. The management updates parents with monthly newsletters, each term’s curriculum and documentation of class activities. M has been happy with school except for a short period of time when she had a change of teacher.

All in all, a good 6 months and its a thumb’s up for us!

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Independence Day!

Start School (Topsy & Tim) 

M started half-day childcare at Schoolhouse by the Garden this Monday. I was allowed to stay in the centre for 3 days to ease her in, which I did. And so far so good. She visited the school once and has been excited about starting school. To prepare her for school, I’ve been reading the above book for the past 2 months. And every time we pass by a childcare centre, I’ll point out that all the children are without mummies and follow their teachers’ instructions.

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On her first day, we arrived in time for breakfast and I sat behind her while she eat her cornflakes. She was probably a little unsure and looked back at me a few times. After that, the teachers brought the children to a play corner with blocks and cooking toys. M got excited and I decided to make a quick exit, said goodbye and went out of eye-shot. I hanged around for the rest of the morning, taking peeps from time to time. After her lunch, I asked her if she wants to pee and brought her to the toilet. As I wasn’t sure if she’ll tell her teachers when she needs to pee, she wore diaper that day. Overall, she did well.

On Tuesday, they had water play and M joined in. But when she got splashed water in her face, she cried. I went to take a look while the teacher was undressing her to give her a quick shower. After the shower, she was crying “mummy carry…” so I helped to dress her. She calmed down when she started to play with the toys. She did not eat much for lunch so I went into the kitchen to feed her and she finished one bowl.

On Wednesday, I sat outside the centre mostly. I informed the teachers that she’s not wearing diaper so they’ll have to remind her to toilet. Around 10+, I heard M crying “mummy carry… i want to go…”. It went on for a long while, I was very tempted to have a look but held myself back. I heard one teacher trying to pacify her but she continued wailing, lasting about 30 min, until lunch time. I found out later that one boy had hit M’s head with the bubble stick and she retaliated by scratching his face. The teacher told her off and she started to cry. Cavemen!

We did not go yesterday as she had lessons at Little Neuro Tree. So, today was her real test. We were actually quite nervous! I left after her teacher carried her into the kitchen for breakfast. She wined a little but did not cry. I said goodbye and made a quick exit. I jumped when my phone rang around 10. Haha… it was mum! And when I picked her up at 12.30pm, she was happily playing blocks with 2 other girls. Her teacher said she did not cry and everything went well.

I’m most surprised seeing how she enjoys playing with other kids. Even though she plays with cousin S very often, M has never played so readily with other kids. She’s diaper free in school too! She’s usually reluctant to use toilets outside home. And she seems to be enjoying herself, telling us what she did in school and looking forward to school.

As for me, I miss seeing how she reacts to different situations, which I could in accompanied lessons. But I got a few hours of free time this morning in return. Not a bad deal at all. I guess it’s time to let go…

11 December 2009 – Megan’s Independence Day!

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Why we chose School House by the Garden…

Before I elaborate further on our final choice of childcare centre, let me just a few points on our eventual decision on a childcare centre over a kindy for M – which I briefly discussed in my previous post.

1) Half-day ‘freedom’. After 2.5 years of staying home with M, I do hope to get some time off finally to explore my own interests! If she goes to a regular kindy, I would prefer to cook her lunch and that will definitely ‘eat’ into my ‘freedom’ time.

2) Given the above point, I hope we can reduce the frequency we go over to my mum’s place for dinner (currently 5 days a week) to perhaps 2-3 days a week. Which of course means I’ll be cooking dinner!

3) One big plus point about childcare centres is they do not have term breaks like the kindergartens! I can imagine how ‘disruptive’ that can be for my ‘freedom’ plans.

4) Alternative care for my absence and recovery for my impending surgery. (This will need a separate post…)

So… Before we set out to visit the childcare centres we shortlisted, here’s my wish list:

1) No air-conditioning: Besides preventing the rapid spread of diseases, M has been living without it in the day so I thought it might be better to stay this way.

2) Private outdoor play area: Since we live in a high-rise HDB flat, M’s contact with nature has been somewhat limited so it’ll nice to let her explore the outdoors in a secure and safe environment.

3) No computers: This is one area I do not see a need for a headstart in life.

4) Clean, organised and pleasant environment: Almost a must-have, especially for young children.

5) Good curriculum: I hope I do not need to send M for ‘Primary 1 Preparedness’ classes in a few years’ time! But I think this is an extremely difficult area to assess, especially for non-teaching professional me. Anyway, I went to a bookstore to have a look at some P1 assessment books to get an idea of what the kids should know and got quite a shock – a ‘challenging’ maths assessment book! Do they really need this???

6) Good teachers: Another subjective area. After all, what is good varies from person to person. Besides passion and dedication which all centres claim their teachers have, I have a slight preference for younger teachers. Maybe it’s their energy level and ‘innocence’.

7) Hearty meals: An area I feel we have least control, it almost feels like ‘take it or leave it’. So I’ll be looking for balanced meals and nothing more.

8) Sufficient time for play: M is the sort that requires a lot of time to play and explore. So I definitely hope for each activity for be assigned enough time so she does not need to be rushed between activities.

Admittedly, there are some things which may be more easily assessed (physical environment) than others (teachers) and even then, one or two visits may not result in an accurate assessment.

Anyway, if you’re interested to read on, here’s a quick account of all the centres (Serangoon North area) we visited (and tried to visit).

Cambridge Child Development Centre (Poh Huat Cres): The asst. supervisor brought us around on a quick tour of the place, no presentation of timetable, meals or curriculum. No air-conditioning. Place seems noisy, perhaps it’s the traffic from the major road next to it. We heard one teacher screaming ‘SIT DOWN’ at the kids. Reasonable outdoor play area. Incidentally, I had read quite a few good comments about this centre so wasn’t sure if what we saw was a true reflection of the place.

School House by the Garden (Philips Ave): Non air-conditioned common areas (living room, dining area, bathrooms) with air-conditioned classrooms. As their website described, a ‘tranquil’ environment with a one-way road in front. Reasonable outdoor play area – a permanent wall for ‘graffiti’ and saw a  tortoise and some small plants. Teacher who brought us around took her time to explain timetable, meals, curriculum. Teachers came across sincere and children contented. (Felt good leaving the place – must be the air of my childhood! My Primary School (which has closed down) is just around the corner.

Treasure Box (Parry Ave): Called 3 times between me and Matt but was not able to reach Principle who shuttles between centres. Refused to provide mobile number. Gave a final call when we left School House by the Garden but staff insists no visit without appointment with principle. Did not take down our contacts in those 4 calls. Anyway, place looks to be fully air-conditioned (closed doors and windows), we could not even take a peek into the house. No staff or children in sight. Outdoor play area seems reasonable. Put off by attitude of staff. Dropped from our list.

Preschool by-the-Park (Li Hwan View): Before we entered the place, we were already ‘awed’ by the property – a huge three-storey detached house with a swimming pool. Staff who took my call and brought me around was very professional – agreeing to show us around even though they do not even have an available place at the moment. Air-conditioned classrooms. Quite an international crowd – with expat kids. Brief presentation of timetable. Curriculum includes Kindermusik and offers enrichment programmes like violin and swimming classes. Pretty impressive outdoor play area (which comes at a price of course). Put M on their waiting list.

Preschool by-the-Park (Carmichael Rd): We were referred here by the staff from their Li Hwan centre. Principle brought us around, came across experienced, took time to explain their objectives and approach. Air-conditioning in classrooms not switched on. Ceiling fans in classrooms seemed to cause lighting to flicker. Quite an old property, will do good with some sprucing up. Met two Filipino teachers attending to the younger kids. Don’t mean to discriminate but I’m not too sure about M acquiring an Filipino-American accent. Distance from our place a little too far.

It’s not difficult guessing what’s our final choice. Crossing our fingers it’ll work out for M!

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